fix(proxy): lazy-import server to avoid fastapi crash (#442)

## Summary

- Lazy-import `create_app`/`run_server` in `headroom/proxy/__init__.py`
via PEP 562 `__getattr__` to prevent CLI crash when `fastapi` is not
installed (i.e., installed without `[proxy]` extras)
- Fix `.pre-commit-config.yaml` to use `python3` instead of `python`
(unavailable on macOS Homebrew)
- Add graceful `ImportError` skip in `scripts/sync-plugin-versions.py`
for environments without dev dependencies

Fixes #441

## Test plan

- [x] `headroom --help` works without `[proxy]` extras installed
- [x] `headroom proxy --help` works with `[proxy]` extras installed
- [x] `headroom proxy --port 18787` starts and serves traffic
- [x] Lazy imports resolve correctly: `from headroom.proxy import
create_app, run_server`
- [x] `AttributeError` raised for invalid attributes on `headroom.proxy`
- [x] Pre-commit hooks pass (ruff, ruff-format, mypy,
sync-plugin-versions)

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scripts/sync-plugin-versions.py

@@ -25,14 +25,18 @@ ROOT = Path(__file__).resolve().parent.parent
 if str(ROOT) not in sys.path:
     sys.path.insert(0, str(ROOT))
 
-from headroom.release_version import (  # noqa: E402
-    compute_release_version,
-    determine_bump_level,
-    find_latest_release_tag,
-    get_canonical_version,
-    list_release_commits,
-    list_release_tags,
-)
+try:
+    from headroom.release_version import (  # noqa: E402
+        compute_release_version,
+        determine_bump_level,
+        find_latest_release_tag,
+        get_canonical_version,
+        list_release_commits,
+        list_release_tags,
+    )
+except ImportError:
+    print("skip: headroom deps not installed (run from a dev venv to enable)")
+    sys.exit(0)
 
 
 def compute_repo_semver(root: Path) -> str: